We started potty training a couple of weeks ago. I know 18 months is a little young these days, and I hadn’t planned on starting until he was 2, but then I read the book Diaper-Free Before 3, and it changed my mind.
She makes a good point with the data: it wasn’t really until the 1960s, when disposable diapers first started to appear, that potty training started getting pushed out to later and later. Back in the “old days,” mothers were more motivated to get their babies trained when everything had to be washed by hand.
She advocates actually starting when the child can sit on his/her own (around 6 months), and just adding the potty time to the regular schedule. I’d heard of people doing this, and thought a) they’re crazy and b) it’ll take too much time, but after reading the book I decided to give it a try.
Obviously we’re starting later, but we’re following the same principle, which is that we have Jack sit on the potty every 3 hours or so (generally whenever he’d normally have a diaper change). He seems to enjoy it; we have lots of books and he either “reads” them or one of us reads to him. The point is just to make it part of the daily routine, and eventually, he’ll get the association between actually going to the bathroom, and the potty.
So far he’s peed in the potty 4 times. He’s also peed and pooped on the floor in the bathroom, in his room, etc., so it can be a bit messy. And when we’re out and about, I don’t bring the potty with us or anything.
Eventually, when he starts to get the hang of it, I’ll have him wear training underwear during the day. I don’t have a particular timeline for when he has to be potty trained, so I don’t feel a lot of pressure to get it done. I just figure, I’d rather have him get used to the concept before he hits the 2s and REALLY wants to assert his independence.
The author says this method (if you started around 6 months) takes more time in the long run, but the child will end up trained at a younger age, and hopefully with less hassle. She also says that to be “trained” doesn’t mean there are never any accidents; it can simply mean that the majority of the time, the child uses the potty. We’ll see what happens!
Question for other people who’ve done potty training: what do you use to clean the potty? I don’t want to use something too harsh, but I do want to make sure it’s cleaned properly… and where do you clean it? Seems kind of unsanitary to clean it in the bathtub.